In fact, nothing is more difficult as finding the right boy as my husband. This can be the one crucial decision that i take in life that can make or break my dreams. Its all about finding the right partner and also the right father for my children. here i'm, I'll tell you my tips on how to get a marriage partner. check it out:
-the first step, identify myself properly, then i will get to know other people well. it's the best strategy to search for that special person is to know myself and what type of relationship i want. As i am aware of who i am and what i hold and believe, insyaAllah i will find the right person in the right place , so i also need to have confidence, Be myself and not others, that i think will be liked by people that i like, i suppose.
-second step, Develop potential and build good character: most people are looking for a mate is not just because of maturity, success, and cute. But alsobecause it has a potential soul mate in some way and have a goodcharacter.-The fourth step, i'll create a network of friends for myself, and widen the circle. i'll also make an effort and talk to strangers wherever it is possible. i think, just communicating with more people will help me to improve my circle of friends and interests
-the fifth step,
Not easily influenced by the environment: i should ignore little influence from others. Maybe there are some people who will affect that my partner is not the right match. i don't hesitate! i must make sure that my partner is a partner that suits me. i believe him and Allah.
-the last step, i'll make the decision that i am ready. i should take a look at any fears that might influence or interfere. so i can make the time to be comfortable with who i am and where i am right now. Why am i looking for marriage right now?
-and the importanly before all, i must Pray to Allah, Allah will bring him if he thought best. and ask God to kept out if the person is not the best for me. God will show the answer in his own way, i suppose.
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